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By Joanne B. Parrotta There you are once again, home alone on a Friday night watching reruns and feeling a little bit lonely and sorry for yourself. Your mind starts to wander back to the good old days when you and your ex were still together. You remember how nice it was to cuddle and make love on the couch. Its been six months since the break-up and you havent found anyone better. Maybe he/she wasnt that bad after all. So you talk yourself into giving your ex a call and inviting him/her over to watch an old movie with you. One thing leads to another and pieces of clothing start coming off. After its over, you wonder what just happened and what it means. Does this mean were back together? I dont really want to get back together. What was I thinking? Maybe we can be friends with benefits until one of us meets someone new. Does this scenario sound familiar? I regularly get asked if sleeping with an ex was a bad idea. Of course, the answer is It wasnt the wisest choice you could have made. Sex with an ex, either out of loneliness or for old times sake, is tempting. You know each other so well. Whats to worry about? Sex with your ex will confuse you and prevent you from moving on with your life. Besides the possible emotional effects, consider the fact that your ex has been single for a while and may have had sex with someone else, no matter what he/she tells you. Sex with an ex is more complicatedand possibly more dangerous to your healththan you might have thought. Dont do it! And if youve done it in the past, dont let it happen again. Period! Sex is a powerful thing. Satisfying an urge while sacrificing your self-worth or your health is not worth it. When thoughts of sex with your ex enter your mind, do whatever you have to do to get over themtake a cold shower, go for a run, call a friend. Save yourself from heartache; dont allow your libido to take over your brain. Read my other free articles and my book A Matter of DestinyHow to Find and Marry Your Soulmate: A Beginners Spiritual Guide for more information on how to find your special someone. Best wishes, Joanne B. Parrotta Author of A Matter of Destiny Settling for second best is never an option! Motivational writer Joanne B. Parrotta is the author of A Matter of Destiny: How to Find and Marry Your Soulmate: A Beginners Spiritual Guide (BookSurge Publishing, an amazon.com company, 2006). To learn more about this fascinating subject and to sign up for youre three FREE instantly down loadable soulmate reports, visit her website at: http://www.amatterofdestiny.com Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Joanne_B._Parrotta http://EzineArticles.com/?Sex-with-an-Ex—Dont-Go-There!&id=336265 generic viagra online where can i purchase viagra without a prescription viagra online issues private uk viagra prescription